"You see, to be on the safe side, applying the “less talk, less mistake” approach, especially if you aren’t comfortable with the topic of discussion. This is where it is best to just listen, stay agnostic and talk less."
Even if someone is confronting you, asking you something that you know when you answer it, someone would get offended. You better shut up.
Situation: You have a girlfriend, but both of you agreed not to tell anyone for some reasons then someone asked if you already have a girlfriend, you answered "none" even if you know your girlfriend is just around, listening. ..
what do you think the girl would feel? of course, denied. . on the lighter side, if you answered yes, follow up questions would occur and that would make the situation worst.
“Talk and have the balls to back it up or else shut up!”
However, less talk, less mistake approach doesn’t apply when you know your principles are being compromised. You shouldn’t allow your fear of making mistakes hinder you from speaking what is on your mind or in your heart. Remember, if you feel a pang of conviction in you, speak up! Chances are you aren’t making a mistake.
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